A document jointly worked on an signed by ACLU, GLAD, Lambda Legal, NCLR, Equality Federation Freedom to Marry, glaad. Human Rights Campaign, and National Gay and Lesbian Task Force ... The document Make Change, Not Lawsuits.

Now that we’ve won marriage in California, should we be bringing cases in other states or suing the federal government? If not, what can we do to help secure the freedom to marry nationwide?

Bottom Line. If you’re ready and it’s right for you, get married in California. If you do, claim the name and act like what you are_married. But don’t go suing right away. Most lawsuits will likely set us all back. There are other ways to fight which are more likely to win.

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The constitutional arguments that we make in the marriage cases also appear in our cases about other issues, such as employment, adoption, or custody.

The changes that you may see could include, an invitation form Mr. Paul and Mr. John for a sleepover for the cub scouts at their home; Newspaper announcements of Same Sex Marriages; Momentum to move Gay Marriage to Church, Requests for adoption but no lawsuits yet, School activity involvement, Starbucks ... public activities that normalize homosexual lifestyle in your community and for your children intented to make change.

After some change has been created to normalize same sex marriage, then take those who don't accept it (non-gay church, non-gay adoption service) to court.

Gay Rights / Special Rights
Homosexuals are redefining the family to include all forms of sexual preference and perversion... Homosexuals have demanded that the 1964 Civil Rights Act be amended to make "sexual preference" a constitutionally protected right! Your church, business and school will be forced to employ homosexuals, bisexuals, transgenders, or those who practice pedophilia... It is time for God's people to stand up! Tomorrow will be too late! This video will change you... And only you can change your country!